OkCupid's stance on violent content
This could include graphic content, gore content, beheading videos, or scenes that glorify animal abuse. Most of which will be against Facebook's community standards.
OkCupid does not allow any content in photos, profiles, or messages that is threatening, incites violence, contains graphic or gratuitous violence or gore, or is disturbing or otherwise inappropriate for a dating site. This does also include depictions of self harm which can in turn be harmful for others to see. This content will be removed and may also get you banned.